Mentoring Kids in Foster Care
Fostering Hope
Ellie Firth, Mentor Coordinator at Fostering Hope explains how the Mentoring Program reflects Christ’s love by supporting at-risk children, and those who care for them.
Fostering Hope exists to reflect Christ’s love by supporting at-risk children, and those who care for them. One of the ways we do this is through our Mentoring Program. We screen, train and support volunteer Christian mentors for kids who are growing up in OOHC or are at risk of going into care. Research shows that having just one caring adult, especially one who isn’t paid to be there, makes a difference in the life of a child in care and those who care for them. Just by showing up consistently, our mentors show their mentees that they are valuable and worthwhile. Mentoring isn’t about proselytising, but it is an opportunity that we have as Christians to show vulnerable kids that they are cared for by our great Heavenly Father.
Jesus, Children and the Vulnerable
We know that children are important to Jesus, again and again in the gospels we see Jesus welcome children and completely reverse the world’s view of kids (see for example Mark 10:13-16 and Matthew 18:1-5). We also know that we are called to care for those who are vulnerable and poor (for example see James 1:27). Children who are in Out of Home Care (OOHC) are some of the most vulnerable around us and there is something we can do.
What is Mentoring?
Each mentoring relationship looks different depending on the needs and availability of the child, carer and mentor. For some they meet weekly, for others monthly and some in between. Some mentoring relationships are in the carer’s home, others meet out in public settings like libraries and cafes. They might play basketball or chess, dance or cook.
No expertise is required and there are no goals that need to be met or set agendas. Every mentoring relationship is just about developing trust and having fun together.
For Fostering Hope, mentoring is about being a “friend with purpose”. It’s about being someone who is just there for the child, responding to their needs and desires for the mentoring relationship.
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“My child has enjoyed meeting up and sharing with his mentor. Some weeks he isn’t keen but that usually changes pretty quickly. Learning new skills and having someone with “no strings” to chat to is great, someone with no expectations or pressure.”
What Makes a Mentor?
As Christians we want to make sure that our interactions with children and vulnerable people not only meet the safety expectations of the world around us but exceed them.
At Fostering Hope we make it a priority to screen all our mentors to ensure all kids are safe, and all mentors are appropriate for their role. We also invest in training our mentors, and host a full day of training in trauma awareness and mentoring skills to make sure our mentors are equipped and ready to mentor. Matching is essential for the mentoring relationship to last. We spend time finding the right mentor and mentee, working hard to ensure that a mentoring relationship is a good fit. Finally, we continue to supervise mentors by walking closely with them each step of the way. This process of screening, training, matching and supervising is not a cookie cutter process but is responsive to each mentor’s needs.
One Mentoring Story… Dance Parties in the Park
Anita* has been meeting with her mentor Jenny for the past 18 months since she was 11. Each Wednesday Jenny picks Anita up from school and they head to a local park. They might cook pancakes on the BBQ and have a dance party. Sometimes they crochet or do some craft. Often, they drink tea and chat. Sometimes it is a combination of these. When Anita’s foster family changed that didn’t impact her time with Jenny. We were able to talk with her new carers and they agreed that the mentoring should continue. It has been amazing to see this relationship blossom and see Anita grow in confidence.
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“[What has been most helpful about mentoring is my daughter is] time with a friend outside of family where [she] can be herself and do things she enjoys with no other family members getting in her way. She loves the freedom and the love that comes from her mentor, and it really helps her confidence.”
What Will You Do?
Fostering Hope is so grateful for the many years of financial, relational and prayer partnership we have shared with TasBaptists, BaptCare and Baptist churches. We are here to partner with local churches to equip and empower the body of Christ to serve Him in this area. Our mentoring program only recruits Christian mentors, so we would like you to prayerfully consider becoming a mentor. Not everyone is in a position to open their homes and foster kids, but many Christians are able to mentor.
What about you? Can we be there for you so you can be there for a child in care?
Register to come along to our next online information session on Tuesday 30 July at 7pm or find out about our Training Days on the website.
*Names changed for confidentiality.
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Ellie Firth is a Mentor Coordinator at Fostering Hope and runs the mentoring program. She also teaches mentoring at Sydney Missionary & Bible College and mentors Christian women through her own practice, Deeply Formed.
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