The Shifting Seasons of Life

Shifting Seasons of Life by Melissa Lipsett
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Shifting Seasons of Life

Opportunities to embrace change

In this Autumn issue of Heartlands for Women, the keynote speaker for the Day of Wonder Melissa Lipsett, considers the wonder and magnitude of life’s seasons.

You can easily miss Autumn in Queensland where I live – it’s nowhere near as dramatic as further south in Australia. I imagine Tassie is glorious in Autum and can’t wait to be there in March.  A few years ago, I was in Canada during the northern hemisphere fall. It was so beautiful to see the leaves changing colour and dropping to make a glorious carpet, and I was reminded of just how much changes during Autumn. 

Although it’s over 38 degrees as I write – a hot, humid summer’s day – I’m in an Autumn season.  My husband and I have five* frail and rapidly failing, parents and stepparents between us.  They’ve been healthy and able well into their eighties, but that season is turning quickly.  The changes in their health, wellbeing and circumstances have been significant and profound. In some cases, changes have happened at such lighting speed it’s been difficult to fully recognise and appreciate the implications until they literally stopped us all in our tracks. 

We’ve all had to make considerable adjustments to our living arrangements. This includes my husband and myself as we moved interstate to provide assistance.   These last months have been chaotic as we dealt with one crisis after another.  Possibly, some of this chaos was caused by our failure to recognise the inevitable changes and act sooner. 

Recognising Opportunities

The natural world seamlessly recognises when one season is over and it’s time for another to begin.  Let me suggest we would do well to do the same.  But just like it’s easy to miss autumn in Queensland, it’s easy to miss the opportunity to embrace change.

It’s good to see it before it either overtakes us and leaves us feeling out of control, or we find ourselves entirely stuck in a place that’s far from healthy.  Either way, it can be difficult to find the courage. Sometimes it feels more comfortable to resist and stay right where we are, no matter the consequences!

Being swept along in inevitable change is uncomfortable. But being stuck in an unhealthy place or season is dreadfully painful too.  There is likely little joy in your life if you’re swept along in change you are not prepared for. So too, there is no joy being stuck in an expired season. 

the Shifting Seasons of life; He is my refuge and my fortress, my God in whom I trust. Ps 91:12 (NIV)

My Refuge

Psalm 91:2 encourages me that, ‘He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.’ So, I am trying to do two things. Anticipate and embrace changing seasons, even if they are challenging and not what I hoped for. And pray I might find the courage to trust in God. Both to hold me, and to lead me forward, in the midst of the challenge. 

Melissa Lipsett

Melissa Lipsett is the CEO of Baptist World Aid. She is a servant leader, playing active roles across the church and Christian humanitarian aid and development sector. She’s definitely old enough to be a grandma … but that’s another story!

*Sadly, since writing this article Melissa lost her father in early February.


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Summer Seasons

Summer seasons by Melissa Lipsett

Melissa Lipsett is the CEO of Baptist World Aid and will be the keynote speaker at the Day of Wonder in March. In this edition of Heartlands, she reflects on the bountiful summer season – and issues a warning!

Summer Seasons

Singing, Rejoicing . . . and Complacency?

As I write, the calendar has turned over to December and although the weather doesn’t quite feel like it yet, to summer.  I love the summertime.  There’s warm and light, the joy of Christmas, holidays and rest.  I never want it to end. 

Rejoice in the Lord always.  I will say it again. Rejoice.

Philippians 4:4

Spiritual summers are a bit the same.  These are the long days of our hearts being full and our souls being at one with God.  In spiritual summers, it seems that God is providing for us abundantly – not just materially but in our health, our relationships, our work and our purpose.  There are times of loving God and knowing we are deeply loved by him.  We feel his presence.

Summer seasons of the heart and soul are wonderful and joyful.  They are ‘a time to dance.’  Philippians (3:1, 4:4) says. ‘Finally, my brothers and sisters, rejoice in the Lord!  . . . Rejoice in the Lord always.  I will say it again. Rejoice.’

Heady Summer Learnings

It is tempting to just enjoy, but there are important things to learn from these warm summer seasons.  And while scripture encourages us to rightly feel and experience joy, it is easy to be seduced and lose sight of where the goodness comes from in the midst of a heady summer. 

That’s what happened to King Solomon, the writer of Ecclesiastes.  As Israel prospers, he becomes arrogant and complacent about where blessing comes from and the way in which it is to be used and he turns his heart away from God.  Ultimately, it results in a spectacular downfall – not just for him but for his people. 

Author and pastor Mark Buchanan has this warning: ‘In summer, drink often.  We can become so accustomed to the bounty of God that we grow indifferent about seeking his gifts.  The lake . . . is so refreshing we fail to notice that the river that feeds it has dwindled to a trickle.’

The discipline of gratitude is likely the best antidote to summer complacency. 

So, in the most joyful seasons of life (and I pray that there may be many of these seasons for all of us) we shouldn’t congratulate or take ourselves too seriously, but we should take God seriously. 

The discipline of gratitude is likely the best antidote to summer complacency.  And daily gratefulness is a win-win.  As we consistently and continually reflect on and honour and thank God for his good gifts, our own joy and contentment will increase. 


Melissa Lipsett

Melissa Lipsett
CEO Baptist World Aid

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Women, the Change-Makers

Self-help group in Bangladesh; change makers
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Pictured Above: A self-help group meets

Deep Thought

The Change Makers

Melissa Lipsett, CEO Baptist World Aid, explains the impact of women who are empowered to change their world.

It’s illegal, but 40 per cent of girls in Nepal are married before they turn 18, and seven per cent before they turn 15.  The Nepalese government is hoping to eradicate child marriage by 2030, but is this even possible?  Will this ever change?

I believe it will. Here’s why

I recently returned from Kapilvastu in West Nepal. It’s a region that has major development challenges and a general lack of adequate services. For example, there are no toilet facilities or running water in people’s homes. There are few opportunities for people to generate income and, sadly, high levels of gender-based violence and child marriage.

The challenges are overwhelming, but here’s the thing: communities ARE overcoming them. Baptist World Aid works with local Christian Partners who share our belief in the dignity, value and equality of all people (Gen 1:26-27).

Our Partners bring the locals together in community groups, and it’s the locals who lead the transformation of their communities. Ninety per cent of these community leaders are women. They’re known as self-help groups, and they’re courageously changing their world.

Our Partners bring the locals together in community groups, and it’s the locals who lead the transformation of their communities.

What self-help groups do

Working as a committee, with elected positions such a chairperson and treasurer, members collaborate to make the changes they want to see in their community. These women showed me how they had depolluted their pond and water source.

Some of them have started small businesses.  And I heard stories of how they confronted perpetrators of domestic violence as a commanding group of 17! I saw leadership, determination and courage from the same people who were, until recently, considered less than their husbands, brothers and sons.

"Kumari" Self-help group Nepal, change makers

Emerging from poverty

Every one of these women, these “change makers”, has a story. Many married as children and didn’t have the opportunity to go to school. Quite a few are now mothers, surrounded by little people with constant needs that are hard to meet. In the past they might have given a daughter in marriage to ensure she—and her remaining siblings—would survive.  

But the gains they’ve made in emerging from poverty means they now say, ‘No more! We will not allow our daughters to suffer as we did’. And they mean it.

‘No more! We will not allow our daughters to suffer as we did’.

As I travelled through the area, I could see that poverty is effectively diminished and girls attend school.

One extraordinary facet of these self-help groups is that are made up of traditionally antagonistic social groupings, but with no infighting. They are too busy changing the world.

I wonder if what would happen if we were too?

Melissa Lipsett

Melissa Lipsett is the CEO of Baptist World Aid and is the keynote speaker at the coming EmpowHer Day of Wonder in March 2025.

Melissa is a servant leader, playing active roles across the church and Christian humanitarian aid and development sector. She believes leadership matters, and so does the call of God on our lives.  She is an outspoken advocate for the importance of hearing women’s voices and empowering them to use their God given gifts and graces for the sake of our world.

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